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For You, Mrs. AL (Always Learning)

          Your last comment on my blog humbles me.  I so appreciate your input.  I must tell you though, that my granddarlings are not really in my debt.  If anything, I am in theirs.  They have given me so much, just by their very presence here on earth, not the least of which is a strong sense that we have an eternity to look forward to and that good-bye is never really good-bye.
            They've taught me, beginning with my first grandchild, the meaning of a zen moment.  That I can see that eternity in their eyes, and when my granddaughter's big brown eyes locked onto mine, at the age of ten months, and the world actually STOPPED, in a busy mall, that I should never doubt again. I have always said that as my first grandchild, she taught it all to me, and she is still my little teacher 11 years later.  The five who have followed, three of whom are still infants, have each taught me something too, but it all happened first with Amber.  One day not long ago, her mother said, "Amber has an old soul." She does.  I was stunned, for I thought that I was the only one who knew that. If you've ever known a child like that, you know what I mean.
                I know that I loved and adored and appreciated my own children, but I was busy and conscientious about raising them right, and distracted, and, though I remember special moments with them I don't have the sense of that eternal connection that I felt with Amber.  I do NOW, with my daughters, but I think it is because one of THEIR daughters opened my eyes.  It is hard to explain, but I have to try.  I know that other grandparents are reading this and saying, "YES!"  I am not the only one.  But I am uniquely blessed, and I am just smart enough to know it.
                 So Mrs. AL, I want to tell you that you too mean something important to me, as do all the people who bother to read and comment on my posts.  I have written two books which are in the Library of Congress.  I have another which will be submitted soon.  They were written for my first three grandchildren, and are not published but are simply indicative of the depths of my feelings for them.  I wish I'd written three books for my children, but it never occurred to me.  I hoped I was doing a good job, I would have lain down and died for any and all of them, I thanked God for them and still do, for they are lovely and loving daughters to their father and me, and we are so grateful and happy to have them.  But still, something else happened with Amber, and from then on I was on the lookout for it.  Little moments that might go unnoticed, little looks that might be too fleeting to pay attention--but now I know.  I wonder if they sense it too, and I believe that yes, on some level they do.  The older three are busy children now, with school to go to and life to live, but somewhere in their dear little hearts they know they are connected to me for all eternity, and that our family will always be somewhere together.                                     
                I hope and pray that I will never be short of zen moments with grandbabies.  I loved being a nurse, but anything I did as a nurse pales in comparison to anything I did as a grandma.  My husband is my partner in life and my love, and my daughters are as dear to me as anyone could ever be.  The grandchildren are the gravy and the icing and the above and beyond.  I am indebted to them and to their parents.  It's a wonder to me, how I got to this beautiful place and all I had to do is sit back and enjoy it.  I went back to church after many years partly out of gratitude for this place, and partly because the state of the country and the world was making me NUTS.  So every week I have an opportunity to thank God for the good that I have and the good that I see.                                  
                Far from being in my debt, my cherubs have simply made life a constant source of wonder and gratitude, and that debt is mine to pay--only it is so huge I doubt I will ever make a dent.  Thanks Mrs. AL, you provided me with the food for the above thoughts.
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CLASSLESS, SOULLESS, GODLESS...AND CLUELESS

                Don't you think that those four adjectives just about sum up the current president of the United States?  As each day goes by, I am constantly astounded and dismayed at his incompetence, his naivete, his dishonestly, his inability to make a single rational decision and then stick with it, his profound ignorance when dealing with monsters such as Chavez or the Saudis, his complete cave-in to the far, far left, his obviously false claim of being a Christian, his out-of-control narcissistic psychopathology.  It is more than worrisome--it may portend the death of America as we know it.  Or knew it.  What a disgrace to have ended up with THIS as a (non)leader.                                                                             
                Almost more than my utter disdain for this pea-brained pretender is my great disdain for the lemmings who voted him in.  That so many American voters could have become so stupid in only a generation or two is discouraging beyond words.  As Dennis Prager has pointed out,  the two main differences between the current generation and past generations are:  more people have gone to college, or are going to college, than at any time in history, and TV.  And thus we have the explanation for the dumbed down people who voted for a guy with no experience, no accomplishments beyond what affirmative action could supply, no prior jobs, no knowlege of history, global politics, health care realities or human nature, no respect for life or liberty and no clue what he is doing. And unseemly friends in low places. Unfortunately, he is also a guy who is so enamored of his brilliance that he thinks he has only to smile or squeeze someone's hand and that person is his forever.  He's the king of the world!  He's a legend, as Clint Eastwood once said, in his own mind.  Frightening and sickening.    Of course I do keep the door open to the idea that ACORN and similar "community organizations" finally pulled off what they tried so hard to pull off in 2000 and actually stole the election.  I would almost rather think that than know  there are truly that many dunderheads out there with the right to vote. 
                 I don't want to hear any blather about buyers' remorse.  It's too late.  You idiots--Catholics, college students, teen-age goofballs (no one under 21 should be able to vote unless he or she is in the military or has been working since high school and NOT going to college), sappy left-wing women (and "men"), who love convicted murderers but hate unborn babies--none of you or anyone else who voted for this train wreck has ANY room to complain.  You didn't bother to investigate him, and you fell for a bunch of gaggingly vapid words on a teleprompter read by, but not written by, this puppet.  Wonder who is pulling his strings?  The far left loons with money.  YOU figure it out.  On the other hand, if you voted for him and DON'T have buyers' remorse, you are hopelessly, hideously anti-American, and you don't deserve this country or its bounty, you don't deserve its military protecting you (but not for long!), you certainly don't deserve any of MY money, and I really, really want you to go live in Europe or Iran or California (as soon as it becomes its own country) and see how things go for you.  You are responsible for the death of America, and the world will be poorer for it. 
                 No class--crass, ignorant, bowing to dictators and disrespecting western leaders, disrespecting our mililtary and all they do for us. No soul--you can't have a soul and not want to protect the innocent souls about to be born, or already born, but unwanted.  No God--I am surprised that his tongue doesn't catch fire when he asserts "...as a Christian."  He is so, so NOT.  There is nothing Christian about him.  Muslim, atheist, satanist, maybe--but not Christian.  And clueless?  No need to explain that one.  He is showing us every hour of every day and every time he opens his mouth.  Disgraceful. 
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Innate Morality: Ever Met a Baby?

          I'm pretty sure I heard Christopher Hitchens say something today about people not needing reigion because it has "nothing to do with morality, and humans are born with an innate sense of what is right and wrong."  Hoo boy.  I may be paraphrasing; I HOPE I'm delusional, but it sounded like that is what he said.  I can only assume that not only does Mr. Hitchens have no children, but that he has never actually met one either.  I, on the other hand, have known quite a few human infants and children, including three of my own, and I am here to tell you that the only innate sense humans have at birth is "GIMME!" Gimme milk, gimme sleep, gimme attention, gimme Mama.  Babies are not born good, nor are they born bad. They are born innocent, but they are no more born with any innate sense of morality than they are born with a degree in math.  And anyway, if one is an atheist, who in the world has determined what is moral or not?  You?  Me?                                           
          I know Dr. Laura commented on whether one can raise moral children without religion, and I have purposely not watched her video on the subject, because I want to put down my own thoughts first.  I can attest to the fact that I have never encountered a baby or child with an innate sense of morality.  On the contrary, if you are going to try to raise children with only YOU as the Higher Authority, it's going to be Lord of the Flies at your house and I don't want to be your kid's teacher or neighbor or even live in the same city as you.  I've seen these kids roaming the malls and streets and schools like hungry little monsters, demanding and whining and stomping their little monster feet and terrifying their parents and everyone else in their path.  These are the kids whose parents have decided to be their friends and not to try to force anything on their little darlings or frustrate them in any way.  When they realize that their children are lying, stealing, cheating, smoking dope, swilling booze, failing in school and just generally wreaking havoc, they are going to do what, exactly?  It's a little late for "because I said so."  Though that worked for me on a number of occasions, it was mostly because my children already knew I wasn't their friend.  For years I was referred to here and there as a "mean mom."  Good for me.                                                                                                                                         
             I didn't take my children to church.  I had been a Presbyterian, but that church didn't really speak to me as I felt my church should.  I figured I knew all the stuff, and I could just sort of infuse it into my kids without actually doing the formal church/Sunday School thing.  I think now that was a huge mistake, though my children all turned out fine.  They missed something though, and now we have all come back to church as Lutherans and all my grandchildren have always gone to Christian School.  I would hate to offer my children what I guess the atheists must be offering: um, nothing means anything (how can it, if we are just random collections of cells who happened to get hatched onto this earth with no plan, no purpose, no soul?) and you're just here by accident, but hey, you shouldn't murder anyone or steal or cheat because, um, well, my innate morality tells me those things are wrong.  Oh yeah?  Who says?  If atheists are teaching their children to behave morally, it is because of our Judeo-Christian values that they have any sense of what morals ARE.  Also, if one is truly an atheist, why does one feel the need to write a book called "God is not Great," since by one's own admission one does not think there IS such a thing as "God."  I don't believe in fairies, and I have yet to feel compelled to write a book about them, since I don't think they exist.  I feel like I am running around in circles on the hamster wheel.  Lefties often make me feel this way.  Sigh.                                                                                                                                     
             ANYHOO, I am thrilled to be back at church, for the world is an ugly place to try to navigate on one's own without some framework of higher values and a sense that there is meaning in life.  It amazes me that anyone could look into her child's eyes and not see something more than a mere human, attached to earth, never to soar above it all.  No wonder atheists are crabby and morose.  Most religious people I know are happy, kind, thoughtful, helpful and grateful.  The few atheists I've heard often sound angry and irritable.  And from a strictly practical point of view, I really think the United States must refute Odumbo's claim that we "don't consider ourselves a Christian nation" (notice how he threw "muslim" in there, as if that psychopathology is equal to Judaism or Christianity), because as we can plainly see, countries and people who believe in nothing are no match for nuts who believe strongly in SOMETHING.  Check where Europe is going, and let's not go with them.  Great Britain has abandoned the Anglican Church for islam dressed up as appeasement and political correctness, and before you know it England and Germany and France and Holland will all be overrun by and subjugated to islam.  Why not?  They have nothing to counter it with.                     
            As for an innate sense of right and wrong, which is where I started--if you do not TEACH your children morals, they will be amoral.  It is not human nature to do the right thing.  Human nature is what we must try to rise ABOVE, and our religious foundation is truly helpful in that endeavor.  I don't care what Christopher Hitchens thinks, or what any atheist thinks for that matter.  I see no point in his trying to denigrate the faith of the majority of the people in the country he chose to be a citizen of.  As I told my nephew in Germany when he wished for the "death of the fundamentalist Christian movement," be careful what you wish for.  When the Christians move out, islam moves in, and while I cannot for the life of me remember any roving bands of fundamentalist Christians attacking people, cutting off their heads, raping them or torturing them, drowning women in swimming pools for being seen with men who are not related to them, locking women in padded rooms and leaving them there until they go mad and die,  ALL those things happen when islam rules, and perhaps one might, if one thinks hard, be able to see a DIFFERENCE or two between the Judeo-Christian religious views and the islamic psychopathological ideology.  "Religion" does not poison anything.  It provides us with a sense of holiness to which we can and should aspire, and to which we can teach our precious children, our gifts from God, to aspire as well.  I shudder to think of the day we do lose the sense of being a Judeo-Christian country, for it will sound the death knell for the United States.  Go back to church America, or start going if you never have.  Prove that once again Obama is out of touch and completely clueless as to what this country is all about.  While he is kowtowing to the Saudis (his muslim brothers), reassert our faith in the Judeo-Christian values that MADE THIS COUNTRY WHAT IT WAS when it was the best country the earth has ever seen.  It could be again, but not without those values and the moral absolutes therein. 
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Hi Muslims! A Tutorial: Part Two, or Losing Your Head in Buffalo

               Tsk, tsk.  I believe it was RIGHT after I published my first tutorial that one of you crazy muslims went off half cocked and beheaded your wife, while at the same time protesting that islam is a religion of peace and you are just trying to SHOW that by having your very own cool TV station.  My word, talk about shooting yourself in the foot.  Don't you have egg on your face now!
               Okay, well obviously you have not been listening.  And frankly, neither has our government.  They aren't quite at the "Let's start buckling under to sharia law!" stage like Great Britain, but with Obama in the White House (pause for wave of nausea) how far away can it be?  I thought I made it clear in the first part of my tutorial that we are NOT Europe.  Europe has had a nasty habit in the past of appeasing evil (or attempting to), with various degrees of failure.  Degrees yes, failure definitely.  I know that your new best friend in the White House might think we should do likewise, but most Americans would, I am certain, disagree.  And not necessarily respectfully.  So keep that in mind when you start pushing your 7th century psychopathology on us.  We like the century we are currently living in, thank you very much. 
               I have to wonder, if you are so dead set on taking over the world, why would you come here?  Perhaps you are unaware of our history of kicking the arses of evil creeps who wish us ill.  Perhaps you are unaware of the principles upon which this country was founded.  Lying down so we can be your doormat, or prayer rug, or whatever, is not a typical American behavior.  Cowering in the corner because some nut job with a towel on his head (and a mask over his face, because he is not exactly BOLD) calls us infidels --not our style either.  In Europe, where religion has died an ugly death for the most part, the people don't have anything much to believe in, and so crazed idealogues can find a way into that society and further their agenda with not too much resistance.  As the song says, You've Got to Stand for Something or You'll Fall for Anything. Ain't it the truth.  This seems like the perfect place to insert G.K. Chesterton's little gem about when people stop believing in God--"they don't believe in nothing, they believe in anything," or everything.  Something like that.  Amen.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       
        In the United States, an overwhelming majority of us identify ourselves as Christian.  Our values are Judeo-Christian values. Our country was founded on them.  Our laws are based on them (the ones that make sense). Since we are not people who believe in nothing, it would be harder for any group to persuade us to drink the koolade. Christianity is pretty well entrenched here, and we don't plan to give it up anytime soon for some weird, loopy dogma put forth by people who think women are for beheading and kids are for blowing up.  Don't think so. Now here's the good part: if you wanted to give UP on that weird, loopy dogma and embrace a religion that really IS about peace and LOVE, you could do it!  Here in America, you could do it more easily than anywhere else.  You could live like we do. Don't bother to deny how incredibly jealous of our lives you are.  No American is going to believe you prefer living in some third world dump with women wearing tents. If you are not totally certifiably nuts yet, you could change it all.  You could learn to read and write and study the Bible and figure out that this is really the way to go.  Don't bother to point out ANYTHING in the Bible about stoning, killing, sacrificing, etc.  We are not living in Biblical times, and at any rate the things atheists and other idiots like to point out are ALWAYS taken out of context, and if anything on earth needs context, it's the Bible.  For starters, just stick with the New Testament, and focus on Jesus.  That should put you where you need to be.  Later, when you get the hang of it, you can go back and deal with the Old Testament and see just how closely Jews and Christians are allied.  So leave Israel alone too.  They're God's Chosen People, and you are treating them badly.  Not going to end well for you if you keep that up.                                            
             Just think! If you give up all this islamic nonsense and barbarian behavior, you too could have a happy life, a nice wife who loves you and whom you love equally, children with whom you could play and whom you would thoroughly enjoy, instead of planting bombs in their diapers and sending them to the same hell you are going to end up in.  Doesn't that sound more appealing than what you have now?  You have to get away from those vermin in your mosques filling your heads full of garbage that is going to get you a crappy life on earth and a crappier eternity.  No virgins, just lots and lots of fire.                                                                                                                                              
             Granted, I don't know that you are actually capable of love.  Generations of having hate, hate, hate drilled into your mushy little brains may have taken a permanent toll, rendering you unable to feel anything else. That would be sad, but trust me, Americans are not going to waste a nanosecond worrying about it on your behalf.  Shape up, they might say, or get out of my country and slink off to someplace where the sheeple are willing to lie down and be flattened.  As I mentioned in Part One, you are not even going to be able to get the WOMEN here to do what you want, let alone the men.  Well, unless they are lefties--but then we won't be sure, really, if they are even men, will we?                    
             What I'm trying to tell you here is pretty simple.  Love is better than hate. Good deeds make you feel better than killing people.  Jesus' message is much more user friendly than anything you've heard in islam. 
             Are you with me so far?  If so, let me throw in a couple more perks you could enjoy if you come over to the Light Side.  Team sports: fabulous.  Love football myself.  Teaches kids to work together and respect each other, be good winners and good losers and all sorts of valuable stuff.  I don't know of any sports you participate in other than soccer where I believe if you lose you are attacked by terrorists.  Romance: ah, spring.  Here, that means men and women fall in love with each other  and maybe get married and have babies and enjoy life.  They try to treat each other well (we hope) and often spend many decades of wedded bliss together.  If the wife shows a little ankle once in a while or talks about gardening with the neighbor guy, no one freaks out.  We're more relaxed here.  We celebrate love.  We celebrate marriage of MEN AND WOMEN in love.  Love and happiness all over the place.  The people who seem the happiest, in my experience, are those who do have a religious faith to rely on and it is, overwhelmingly, Christian with some Jewish sprinkled in.              
              Life on earth is supposed to be LIVED, appreciated, celebrated--not thrown away on a death cult whose main focus is depraved destruction of innocent life.  God expects us to be grateful for His gifts, and to live as He commanded.  None of your garbage fits with that.  I hope you've been paying attention and are heeding my words. In Genesis God says He will bless those who bless the Jews, and He will curse those who curse them.  That ought to do it.  Happy Easter!                                                                    
                                                                                                                                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                                                                    





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Oh You Crazy Kids! STAY MARRIED!

              I know I am supposed to be continuing with my tutorial for muslims, and I shall:  working title: Losing Your Head in Buffalo--but I have a pressing issue I think needs covering first.                                                                                 
               One of the results of the lousy parenting job my generation did in vast numbers (not everyone! I did pretty well) has been an immaturity and selfishness in our 20-and 30-somethings that I believe is unprecedented. I have three grown, married children, and lately all around them their friends' and even some family members' marriages are falling apart.  They have small children, and they seem to be unaware that they are about to destroy their children's lives for the sake of--what??  What do they think they are going to find out there that they can't have at home if they just work at it?  I look at these little souls who CANNOT understand why Mommy and Daddy are not together anymore and what have they done to make their parents unhappy--for little kids are ego-centric (normal) and always assume they are somehow inadequate--otherwise why would a parent leave?  It doesn't matter how sweetly and earnestly you try to explain it to them, they CANNOT understand and they CANNOT help but be damaged in ways large and small.  Unless there is one or more of Dr. Laura's 3 As--abuse, addiction or adultery--you as parents OWE your children an intact home and a happy (or at least happy-appearing) SET of parents in the house.  Yes!  You owe them.  Suck it up.          
               And when I say "abuse" I don't mean your husband thinks you should clean the house or your wife thinks you should pick up your socks.  I mean one of your is hitting, spitting at, throwing down the stairs, etc.  Let's not play semantic games with terms.  YOU know what is actual "abuse."
               For those of you who don't want to listen to me--and really, why should you?--here's a fact for you.  Studies have shown (and generally I subscribe to Dennis Prager's opinion of studies: they either prove the obvious or they're wrong, but this fact did surprise me at first) that among couples who considered or did divorce, after five years the ones who did NOT divorce were far happier than those who did.  As I said, at first it did surprise me, but after I thought about it I realized that in most cases marriages are salvagable if one is committed to working things out, and that if couples are thinking they will find something better out there they are almost universally wrong.  Not to mention the fact that they are the only two people on earth who love those children as much as they do and are as invested in them.  Unless they are exceptionally selfish (and granted, many are), that alone should propel them to save their marriages.  In many cases, if couples just start acting happy and thinking about making their spouse happy instead of ME, ME, ME, they can turn things around rather quickly.  But they have to stop being childish, self-centered, and unrealistic.  Quite a challenge for many of today's spoiled, whiny brats.  
                Not long ago, I read a quote from one of those TV judges who said that couples divorce far too easily these days.  She said she had been married 17 years, and "for three or four of those years, I don't even think I liked him!" It was said tongue-in-cheek, of course--but it has a ring of truth in that NO ONE is enamored of his or her spouse all the time.  Often he or she is driving you crazy.  But remember why you got married (unless it was for a really stupid reason, but even then, if you have kids, make the best of it!) and remember the bigger picture.  Your sense of accomplishment if you save your marriage and your children's well-being is far greater than any imagined perk that "freedom" will offer you.  I cannot stand all this breaking of children's hearts.  When one of my children was about six, she said to me, out of the blue, "Mama, you and Daddy can never get divorced, because I could never pick one of you to live with!"  And out of the mouths of babes, there you go.
               So please, parents, no matter how immature and selfish you HAVE been, aspire to something more and put your marriage and your children above yourself.  It helps if you are religious, but even if you are not, you can be more than you thought you could be.  No Army needed, just your determination to make it work and keep your precious children in a two-parent home with security and love and happiness.  I wish you success.                                              
 
   
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Saying Good-bye to America

      As my America falls to the far left, I wish to state that I WAS HERE for what the left says NEVER existed in the United States.  I WAS HERE, so you will have a hard time convincing me ,especially you young, naive, ignorant, namby pamby socialist/communist "students," that I wasn't.  And HERE, Children, is how it USED to be.
         I was here when my parents and grandparents discussed the Great Depression and how hard it was--how ashamed they'd have been to have had to go "on the dole," as it was derisively called then, how each of them coped and kept the faith in America and its core values and prinicples.  My grandfather went to work painting houses when the newspaper for which he'd been the business manager closed down.  My mother, a schoolteacher by profession, worked at Lerner's to put her brother through college while waiting for a teaching job.  My dad put himself through college (with not a DIME of government help, though he was from a poor farming family) and joined the Air Force. My grandmother made her four children's clothes from scratch and could stretch a food budget to last a week instead of a day.  All my relatives were staunch American capitalists and they knew that if they could keep those principles going, eventually things would turn around.  They were right. 
       Now we not only have more and more people, including illegal aliens, on the dole, but wanting more, more, more from the guv'mint (read ME) and to be protected from their own bad decisions and ridiculous debts.  Because of the low quality of public education in the past 30 or so years (thanks to the takeover of our schools by the far left educrats), the young people of today are far less educated after college than students were then after 8th grade.  If you could see the curriculum back then as compared to now, you would be appalled, if you haven't been brainwashed by the current left-wing edcucational regime.
        I was here when parents were married, one man and one woman, and the husband worked and the wife took care of her own children!  Yes!  That was the NORM, and though my mother loved teaching, she would not have for one nanosecond considered hiring strangers to raise her babies.  She never regretted leaving teaching (to which she returned when we grew up) for us.  We were hers and my dad's priority, and thankfully that was still the case when I had my children.  I am an RN, but that job (which I loved) paled in comparison to the thrill of being with my kids (even on days when things were downright crazy) and watching them grow and develop.  When I was growing up, single motherhood was a disgrace to be avoided and a man expecting his wife to be a breadwinner would have been appalling.  Men had pride in their ability to provide for their families.  Moms were considered essential, especially for babies, but also for kids.  I lived the Leave it to Beaver life, and so did most of my friends and family.  It DID exist and it was pretty fine.
        I was here when individualism and ambition to do well were the American way.  I was here when freedom was paramount, not equality.  The one thing we had here that very few others in the world had was freedom to strive to be the best you could be, no matter the outcome.  Equality of OPPORTUNITY is the American dream, not equality of OUTCOME.  The outcome was what one made it to be.  Hard work, self-control, goals, values (Judeo-Christian), morality were all important--vital even--to this country.  They are what made us great.  Their loss is what will destroy us.
        I was here when people emigrated to the United States to become Americans.  Not to bring their own cultures here and expect us to honor them and adapt to them.  Multiculturalism is NOT what made us great.  It IS what will help bring us down.  We must have an AMERICAN identity.  A common belief system, a common language (just one, Children), a common philosophy of what our society stands for.   I was here when we had that. 
        I was here when people were responsible for their own behavior and there were consequences to that behavior.  I was here before we started living our lives to please lawyers.  To avoid lawsuits.  To give criminals the benefit of the doubt and victims the shaft.  Before everything got turned inside out and upside down.  When the death penalty meant you were gone in a year.  Consequences. Now consequences for bad behavior, even criminal behavior, are rewarded by the government with bailouts, good money after bad, and 20 years on death row doing drugs and having sex and even producing offspring.  My, as the saying goes, times have changed!
        So now we have--what?  Who knows what this election result will bring?  The most amazing thing to me is how, in my lifetime, the number of truly stupid people has increased to this point.  I know that the public school system and the far left wing college environment has contributed, but when did parents stop teaching their children about America and what it is and has been?  Oh, right.  When they stopped raising their own kids and pushed selfishness to limits no previous generation could have imagined.  As I wrote in a previous post to my grandpa, my apologies to those generations and to my grandchildren for not being able to stop this train.  I mourn for the United States I grew up in and love, and so wanted to keep for my grandbabies and their grandbabies.  If this is good-bye, and I fear it is, the world has lost forever that shining city on a hill, the beacon of hope (no, not THAT hope) and the refuge for all who want to be grown up, independent, and FREE. 
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Santa Is NOT a Lie! Santa is a TRADITION!

     I read a post last night that urged people not to "lie to their kids" this Christmas.  As soon as I saw the title I knew: someone was trashing Santa Claus.  Sure enough, the post whined about how traumatized children are when they discover that Santa is make-believe.  Oh gosh. 
     I must be from some other planet, because I have yet to be, see, or know a child who was traumatized at learning that Santa wasn't actually coming down chimneys.  My husband grew up in Germany and apparently the German children are not prone to histrionics when they learn the "truth" either.  Who are these delicate flowers who fall into a deep depression over this? 
    My older daughters happily kept up the pretense for years for my youngest daughter, helping her write letters and bake cookies for Santa.  When she began to suspect that some of the claims made about him were a little iffy, she simply asked--and we told her she was pretty darn smart to figure it out on her own, but hadn't it been fun?  And she agreed that it had. 
     Now I have four grandchildren.  My oldest has known for many years that Santa is a magical being and not flesh and blood, but as her mom and aunt did for THEIR sister, she keeps the magic going for her sister and cousins.  And that is what it is--part of the magic of childhood.  Can children have some things that are just for them?  That help keep their childlike imagination and spirit alive and healthy?  Santa Claus isn't a lie!  It is a beautiful tradition that has been around for generations and I hope will always be. Lighten up People. Have some fun.
     My granddarlings go to Christian School.  They know that Jesus is the Reason for the Season. We all knew that when I was growing up, and my children knew, and their children know.  What is wrong with these children that you cannot explain to them the difference between what is real and what is magical make-believe but which nevertheless teaches them about giving as well as receiving?  What have you done to make them think that letting them have their Santa moment somehow makes you a LIAR whom they can "never trust again"?  You must have some strange relationship with your kids if this is what comes of Santa Claus.  Sheesh!
     I highly recommend that you Google "Yes, Virginia, There Is a Santa Claus," a beautiful piece written by a newspaper editor way back when people were not nearly as nutty as they are now.  It explains Santa far better than I can, and it is so touching that I printed it out on lovely paper and framed it for my granddaughters. 
     For Heaven's sake, give your kids a break and don't go all wacky over a sweet, wonderful, happy tradition that never caused anyone a bit of harm, unless the parents cannot explain it all for what it really is.  When I figured it out, my mother clapped her hands and told me how smart I was and immediately, in her most conspiratorial tone, requested that I keep the secret for the little kids in the family.  Of course I did, and thus the tradition continued.  May it always.  It would never have occurred to me to accuse my parents of lying to me!  What an odd, odd response.  But as I said, I've never seen it.  Not on this planet.
      Merry Christmas everyone! Yes, hand-wringing, anxious, gloomy people, there IS a Santa Claus!
Merry Christmas Santa                    Manger 





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Smackdown at Liebau's

     I left a comment on the thread of a column on the kind of "hope" that the Obamaniacs were "hoping for" in regard to the pro-life issue, by Carol Platt Liebau.  There was quite a brouhaha going on with someone called "Ivan," who apparently believes that there are no "babies" in women's wombs, only blobs of protoplasm or some such term, which he compared to "tumors and warts."  I thought I would expound on this theory of his, and perhaps I shall attempt to disabuse this Ivan fellow, and any of you with similar ideas, of his notion that there are only globs of tissue and blobs of protoplasm--"pre-conscious" is a term I think he used--in a woman's body.
     I,  Dear Readers, am a former Labor and Delivery Nurse, a mom and a grandma.  I have seen many an ultrasound in which Ivan's alleged blob of protoplasm is engaging in such disctinctly non-tumor-like activities as yawning, thumb-sucking, hiccuping, and grabbing his or her umbilical cord.  It has been known for ages that unborn babies hear, feel, sense the presence of foreign objects such as, oh, I don't know, coat hangers or knitting needles and shy away from them, sleep, wake, pee, swallow and of course kick and punch.  Ivan asserts that a baby is NOT a baby until such time as he or she enters the delivery room and takes a breath of air.  As I mentioned in my comment, the only change that occurs at that moment is that those dear little lungs are inflated.  Otherwise, this is the same baby who was a moment ago snug as a bug in a rug inside his mother's uterus.  He or she knows his or her mother's voice and can recognize music that was played while he or she (do tumors have reproductive organs?) was in utero. As a parent and grandparent myself, I have also seen first-hand that even a newborn will look toward his mother's voice and will even cry when she is out of the room for any length of time.  In the old days, the "experts" believed babies were practically insensate for the first few months of life.  As my mother pointed out to me many years ago, that was because the "experts" were in the lab all day and their wives were home watching the babies relate to them, smile at them, and demonstrate their own unique personalities within hours of birth.
      I just don't believe Ivan has children, though he claims to.  Would he not  have educated himself about the state of his unborn children, if he were at all interested in their lives?  For their lives started long before birth, as surely as they breathed upon delivery.  If he does have children, and if they are, as he claims, PROUD of his position that women have just as much right to scrape out a baby as they do a tumor, then I do fear for the future of our country even more than I already began to on Nov. 4.  You silly saps have elected a Marxist, anti-life, possibly/probably Muslim megalomaniac who would allow a full term, viable infant to die in a storage room rather than "burden" the people who are trying so hard to kill that infant.  What were you thinking, those of you who like to think of yourselves as Christian?
     You can dissemble all you want, but you will never escape the facts.  Babies are babies inside the womb and outside the womb, and they can survive at earlier and earlier stages of development.  If you kill them, you are murdering a person, Ivan and his semantic circus notwithstanding. 
      If a woman wants a choice, she can choose not to have sex if she is unprepared for the consequences thereof. Sex is not a recreational activity, though Planned Non-Parenthood says it is.  It is an adult action, as I pointed out in my comment, and the consequences of such action should be paid by the participants, not by the innocent baby who is the result.  People are clamoring to adopt babies.  I am certain that it is reasonable to ask a woman to make up her mind that she doesn't want a baby before she is in her third trimester, or for that matter her second.  I am not naive enough to believe we will ever rid ourselves of abortion altogether, but at least let it happen, if it must, before the fetus is sensate.  Early, early on.  It is still sad, and awful, and hideous, but it is possible to know one is pregnant within a VERY short period of time after conception.  Make up your feeble mind immediately.  If you don't, too bad for you.  Have the baby, and give him or her up for adoption to a loving couple who will raise your little blob to be a fine citizen of our formerly great country.
      There are some real pips out there, aren't there People?  Try to make sure you aren't one of them.  Let the babies live and thrive and be loved and cared for.  Face facts.  Grow up.  Be kind. Ours is a Judeo-Christian country for the best of reasons, and this is but one of them.  Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness should be guaranteed to our smallest and most helpless citizens too.  They HAVE no choice. 
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Mourning in America, with Apologies to Burt

     A time to dance and a time to mourn.  It's time for the latter.  Even now, it is hard for me to believe that the United States has a president of such low moral and ethical stature, such vast inexperience, such a lack of accomplishment, such a checkered past--and present--and with such little known character.  And what we know is not good. 
       Setting aside the rampant voter fraud which I suspect took place, and which I also suspect will be ignored by the wimpy Republicans, the fact is that many blacks voted for Obama because he is sort of black, and many whites voted based on some misplaced and thoroughly ridiculous "white guilt" over SLAVERY.  Are you kidding me?  I think a vast majority of those who voted for him are lazy and ignorant and simply didn't do their homework.  Nor did they bother to learn the meanings of some key words, such as "communist,"  "capitalist," "Marxism," "freedom,"  "individualism,"  "personal responsibility,"  and "you will no longer have a right to own what you earn."  Shame on all of you.  If you did not wish to preserve the America of my youth, the America our Founding Fathers, now spinning at warp speed in their graves, envisioned and were willing to die for-- then by all means leave our shores and go reside in Europe, which, by the way, is on the downhill slide toward oblivion, thanks to none other than the ideologies espoused by your new saviour, Barach Hussein Obama. 
        Yes, I am in mourning.  I read Burt Prelutsky's column with the same title, and many of the comments, both intelligent and loony.  It won't matter to the Left what becomes of this great country, because they have NEVER recognized its greatness, nor the reasons for it.  They stubbornly refuse to SEE what has happened in every socialist and communist country in history;  they cannot SEE that those ideologies go against human nature and can never bring prosperity, but only apathy and greed.  Once the incentive to do better is gone, human beings tend to lose their ambitition and their desire to TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES AND THEIR OWN.  Europeans are immature, self-centered, and envious.  They want what they want, and they expect the government to give it to them.  When it doesn't, they never admit that socialism might be the cause of their situation.  They simply go on whining.  They are obsessed with and jealous of America, but they never admit we might have had a better idea. 
        Why would we want to be like them??  I once again urge everyone to read While Europe Slept by Bruce Bawer. You will see our future in it if we do not rein in the Left, and soon.  I fear it may already by too late, and I do blame President Bush for his abject failure to communicate the stellar principles of conservatism.  Well, after all, that was because he ISN'T one.  One of the comments on Burt's column compared Obama's ability to communicate with Ronald Reagan's.  That would require a whole pitcher of kool-ade to swallow.  He is a pitiful communicator unless he is reading from his teleprompter, and he never SAYS anything either way.  But at least with the teleprompter, we get fewer ers, ums, uhs, and ANNNNNNNNNDs.  Still, Bush did not do any better, because he simply chose not to.  What we needed to hear from him, over and over, we didn't. 
        So I do mourn.  I mourn the loss of our education system to the Lefties, from whence we have come to revisionist, anti-American history, fuzzy math, ignorance of great literature, philosphy and religion.  Public schools now fail on a MASSIVE scale, not for lack of funds, but for lack of truth and for substituting ideology for facts and feelings for thought.  My grandchildren go to Christian School, and thankfully none of that occurs there.  My ten-year-old granddaughter knows about actual history and global politics than any of you ignorant fools on the Left.  Unfortunately, there are not nearly enough of such schools to counter the ubiquitous mis-education and Leftist indoctrination from the public schools. 
        I mourn for the can-do spirit that infused the America I grew up in.  In a previous post, I apologized to my deceased grandfather and great uncles for our failure to protect and nourish that spirit which was so prevalent in their generation and that of my parents.  Even during the Depression, there was no expectation that it was the government's job to take care of them and their families.  That was THEIR job, and they accepted and even celebrated that that was so.  It was very, very difficult for so many, but they were proud of their hard work and their adaptability to even the most dire of circumstances.  I am so proud of them.  They would be so ashamed of us.
        I mourn for the grand sense of freedom that exists nowhere else on earth.  I lived in Japan for two years after high school.  A silly, self-involved teen-ager was I, but even then I could feel it.  I came home after those two years away with an even greater--a more conscious--appreciation of the United States.  I felt like literally kissing the ground when I walked off the plane.  No one was as free as we.  Opportunity was everywhere.  We all had the same opportunity--NOT the same outcome.  Talents, intelligence, ambition, perseverence vary among humans.  Expecting EQUALITY of OUTCOME is not what we are about.  Freedom is far, far more an American value--or it used to be--than equality.  Besides, if you think the government can GUARANTEE equality for all, you are naive and you are dangerous.  You will remove all incentive for people to work hard and be independent.  You will move them to be pigs slurping at the government trough, and who will pay for the slop?  Ask Europe.
        I mourn for all the people who will die needlessly if we are subjected to universal health care.  We boomers will be the first to be sacrificed to the "common good,"  especially if we are unable to be "reeducated" into the "new thought " (which isn't new at all).  Suddenly there will just not be enough money to pay for our needs, nor enough time to wait for an appointment.  Once you start promising free stuff to people, they want more and more of it, and as in Europe will be lined up three deep to see Comrade Doctor for a sniffle or a hang-nail.  Then see how long you will wait for a hip replacement or cancer treatment.
        I mourn for the classiness that once inhabited public office.  Ronald Reagan had such class.  Class isn't money- or education-based you see.  It is in an attitude of grace and humility and wanting to put others at ease in your presence, regardless of how much higher your stature might be in the eyes of society.  I shall miss that.  I think that the Bushes had class, no matter how much I criticize his politics in some areas.  Perhaps humility is part of having religious convictions.  Our Judeo-Christian values are eroding along with any expectation of class. 
        I mourn for the loss of religious Judaism.  It is, I am certain, the secular Jews who voted overwhelmingly for Obama.  I cannot fathom that a religious Jew would do so and still expect to answer to God for his choice with any  hope of  redemption.  A comment on Burt's column posed the question as to why American Jews would be so careless of Israel as to vote for Obama.  The answer is because they ARE secular, not religious, and Israel is meaningless to them.  Beyond sad.
        I mourn for all the children who will NOT feel what I felt for America.  The era of selfishness and demand is being ushered in by the most arrogant and self-aggrandizing politician ever to disgrace our presidency.  He is naive, sneaky, and dangerously unaware of his short-comings, legion though they are.  One of the comments on Burt's site quoted Churchill on people thinking they can tax themselves into prosperity.  "...like a man standing in a bucket trying to lift himself out by pulling on the handle."  Oh where are the Churchills?  The era of the Statesman has ended, not with a whimper but with a bang. 
        I mourn the decline of the greatest military power of all time, used overwhelmingly for good and for saving ourselves and others from evil, evil the Left of the world has never been able to recognize or face.  Obama will decimate it if he can, and his pledge to disarm us and his refusal to weaponize space at the same time China is building its military with lightning speed, should scare even the most determined fans.  After all, does the Left envision that an invading force or a nuke dropped on our country will somehow benefit them?  I know they are part of the "better Red than dead" crowd, but I doubt they can count on preferential treatment from either the nuke or the invader.  Just a thought.  My nephew in Germany announced this week that he is a pacifist.  My reply: it is easy to spout pacifist pap when someone else is protecting your sorry behind.  I might point out that his hero is Ghandi, who urged the Jews of Europe not to fight the Nazis.  He said that would "impress" them.  You know how THAT turned out, if you didn't go to public school or college or graduate school.
      I will be sorry to see the end of free speech.  I will be sorry to see the government goons try to disarm the public and stomp on the 2nd Amendment as well as the entire Bill of Rights.  I will be sorry to see a Leftist Supreme Court make law from the bench and overturn the will of the people on a regular basis.  For a preview, let's watch how fast the California Supreme Court, again, overturns the will of the people on the Marriage Amendment.  Don't blink.
      I am tired of all the gloom and doom I am feeling.  I think I will go play with my newest grandbaby and try to forget for a moment or two that my feelings are based on THOUGHT, unlike the loony lefties' feelings, which are based on MORE feelings.  We have a frightening four years ahead of us, and I pray that the Justices on the Supreme Counrt who are conservative stay healthy and don't retire or die.  It seems as if right now that may be the only hope we have.
      I thank my America for being my homeland, and thank God for the divine inspiration I have always believed was given our Founding Fathers.  I thank them for their sacrifice and unbelieveable determination, and I apologize for not keeping their legacy alive longer.  I thank our Military and their families for their gallant attempt to preserve us as we were, and I hope they do not feel discouraged.  Many, many of us realize their gift to us, in spite of the MSM's attempts to hide it.  We love you.  You are the heroes of this struggle, and I pray it won't be for nought. 
      I thank Burt Prelusky for his column and his humor in the face of this tragedy.  I thank President Bush for keeping us safe and wish him well, though he helped destroy the Republican party.  I don't believe that was his intent.  I thank Townhall for providing us a forum and some of the best writers on the planet.
      I thank God for my country, my family of origin and the one my husband and I created.  I thank God that my husband saw the America I saw when he came here at eighteen, and made it his own.  I thank God for health and happiness in spite of the shadow that now hangs over us, and I vow to keep up the good fight.  There is no hope for the Left, so we must simply take it all back from them when we can, if we can.  If not, then it really will mean farewell to America.
 
        
      Have a blessed Thanksgiving in the late, great United States of America.  
     P.S.  I mourn too the illusion, assuming I ever believed it, that black liberals/Democrats are not the most racist, hate-filled people in this country.
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Dear Grandpa, Sorry About the Country...

Dear Grandpa, Uncle Vern and Uncle Jack,
      Just wondering if you are all at peace eternally, or if you are spinning wildly in your graves at the turn your adopted country has taken.  I'm guessing the latter.
      Now that we are about to possibly elect the first Muslim Communist as president of the United
States of America, I do feel the need to apologize to all my ancestors who chose this country for its magnificent values and for its freedom and opportunities.  Our founding fathers brought with them the firm belief that we had God-given rights and that they should fashion a Constitution that acknowledged those rights.  The government wasn't supposed to infringe on them, nor was it supposed to MAKE UP "rights" that were never mentioned nor intended.  We've come a long way, haven't we?  Toward bigger government, secularism, socialism, and now my personal favorite: Marxism redux.  As if it worked so splendidly before, all those times.  As if millions upon millions of people didn't die at its hands.  
      When your family came here from Scotland, I bet you were amazed at the bounty of America, even then.  Never has there been a MORE free country, with more opportunity and promise.  Of course, there were problems.  All have been dealt with.  Now we've created far worse problems by straying from the conservative principles that made us great.  We've let the left become too vocal and too entrenched in the mainstream media.  There is no pretense of fairness in the mainstream media, and even Fox News, which claims to be balanced, has to bend way over to give the left its due, simply because if it REALLY got its due, it would be banished to Europe where it belongs.
    When you came here, there was a work ethic second to none.  You raised a family during the Great Depression, and the worst thing to you would have been having to go "on the dole."  When the newspaper for which you were the business manager shut down, you painted houses to support your four children.  Now we've imported all sorts of people who disdain our values and want a free lunch courtesy of the American taxpayer.  And we have some homegrown varieties of the same.  Instead of promoting hard work and ambition, the lefties who've taken over the Democrat party are promoting class envy and laziness.  That's Europe, not us.  Or at least it used to not be us.
      I bet you are spinning over the change in your church too.  The Presbyterians have taken leave of their senses, or at least the leadership has.  Instead of blessing the Jews, as we were instructed to do by God, they are cursing them and fawning over the Palestinians.  There are a number of formerly mainstream Protestant churches who have fallen down similar holes.
      As a child I seem to remember there was a bit of animosity among Protestants toward Catholics, until two of your grandchildren married two of them.  Everyone mellowed after that. You'd be happy to know that now it may be the Catholics, traditionally mostly Democrat, who will prevent our electing a Muslim Communist, because it turns out he is also a big proponent of infanticide and is unwilling to keep a baby born alive, after a botched abortion, alive!  Fancy that!  And he lies about it, or tries to, to boot.  I know how you'd feel about that. 
      You know I married a European whose family all still lives in Germany.  So I do have a handle on the differences between our societies.  And frankly, I have to come down on the side of traditional America.  It is rapidly disappearing, but I try to be hopeful we can bring it back, at least in part.  Starting with closing the borders to illegal, ungrateful, unhelpful and downright dangerous aliens.  Seems like a good place to start to me.
      I sure miss you all.  You were men among men, not a wimpy metro-sexual among you.  You were men who could be counted on in a country that could be counted on, and was--by the whole world at times.  Personally, I don't think there has been nearly enough gratitude shown the United States by people whose a--es we saved, but then again we know the left is ungrateful, as all spoiled, immature brats generally are.
      So Grandpa, I do apologize for the road the country is on at the moment.  I did my best to right it, sticking to my conservative principles and trying to reason with the loony left.  I raised three conservative kids and they are raising three, almost four, conservative grandkids.  I've discovered in my advancing age, though, that "reason" and "left" do not go together.  They are like pancakes with bacon instead of sausage, my mom--your daughter-- would say.  Mom was a little rigid on things that went together, but she knew gratitude and happiness did, and she sure recognized ingratitude when she saw it.  The left is awash in it, and aren't they just the unhappiest bunch you've ever seen?  
      Well, we'll try to keep the looming disaster from happening, but I can't promise anything.  Unfortunately, my parents' generation (the greatest one, according to Tom Brokaw), while nobly fighting a couple of wars and surviving the Depression, and making the most of what they had, were certainly not the greatest at parenting.  They were so happy to be able to offer their kids all the things they never had that they forgot to also TEACH them to be grateful, and independent, and hard-working, and to not expect anything from the government except national defense. I was lucky to be one of the exceptions to that trend, but many of my fellow baby boomers are the best educated yet dumbest, the owners of the most toys but the most ungrateful, the owners of the most material goods but the least blessed with a drop of common sense.  They have bought into, among other things, the feminist dogma of the man-haters, the global warming hoax, the PETA psychosis and the "all countries and societies are as good as all other countries and societies" mantra of the far, far, FAR left.  I know it's hard to believe how quickly this all happened.  I'm kind of glad you aren't here to see what has become of your beloved America, and if you CAN see any of it I sure hope it's filtered somehow.  I think MTV alone would have felled Grandma.
      You all may have been the LAST great generation.  I am eternally grateful to have been your granddaughter.  Thank you for being a shining example of the people who came here for all the right reasons.  You met my husband before we were married, and I know you will be pleased to see that he also came here for the right reasons.  He also came legally, gratefully, and independently.  And he is a citizen of this country he fell in love with at eighteen.
      Sorry, Grandpa, wish we could have kept the faith a little better, but we aren't giving up.  At least not unless the Muslim Communist actually gets elected.    Love, Jan
      
       
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For Proud Liberal, Reality Bites

         In my usual wordy way, I overshot the number of words allowed on a comment on one  of Star Parker's columns.  So I have to repeat it here, and I hope I remember at least some of what I wrote in the heat of the moment.  This is for you, Proud Liberal.
         In the United States of America,  the term "traditional values" has always referred to Judeo-Christian values. Our founders brought them here, and they wanted to keep them.  After all, generations of humans embraced those values, and in America they built the best country that has ever existed on this planet.  Our laws are based on them.  Our values have made us who we are as a country.
         Proud Liberal, you think Obama is going to be a peachy president because he knows the "reality" of people having differing opinions on...everything.  Governing by every individual's opinion of what should be is not governing at all.  And there we have anarchy.  Hardly ever works out well.  Our traditional values have stood the test of time, and cannot be thrown aside for the latest whim or new-age, feel-good philosophy. 
         I doubt that any conservative could top the lies told by liberals every time they open their mouths.  Because they lie, they assume everyone else does.  Proud Liberal is simply projecting his own behavior onto conservatives.  The "reality" of Obama is this: he is a Marxist,  he is not smart, he is not capable, he is not good, he is not Christian--the Muslims think he is one of them, and I think they are probably right--, he lies in every speech, he "changes" what he says depending on which group he is talking to, he is fluff with no substance. As Gertrude Stein famously said,  "There is no there, there."
         Proud Liberal, you must grow up and face the actual reality of America.  Do you recall the phrase"E Pluribus Unum," found on our coins?  It means, "Out of Many, One."  It is, simply put, the American dream.  It means, if you come here from anywhere, we will embrace you--IF you want to be one of us.  America is unique in this quality.  The lurch toward multi-culturalism, diversity, and paying too close attention to every wacky, off-the-wall idea that makes its way into the public consciousness threatens our survival as a strong nation.
         The whiny babies on the left want government to be their mama--and their sugar daddy--and if you want to know how that's working, look at Europe.  They'll be Muslim in a couple of decades, because they gave up their values, which were once somewhat similar to ours, for a secular selfishness.  Now they don't marry, don't reproduce, don't stand up for their countries, don't fight evil, don't insist that immigrants assimilate, and are descending more and more into depravity and sloth.
         We really don't want that here.  John McCain said that it isn't the American way to envy the rich and want to take their money away from them.  The American way is to want to JOIN them, and to work hard and make it on our own.  Americans have always had common values, a common language, common goals: the Ten Commandments, English, and equal opportunity (NOT equal outcome) for all.  Those are the reasons so many have come here from everywhere else, to take advantage of all America has to offer.  YOU must face reality, Proud Liberal, and it is this: in our country at least, man is not the final authority.  God is.  That is how we want it to be. Over 80% of Americans say they believe in God--and that means the Judeo-Christian God who is the author of our values and morals, and from whom our blessings--and our RIGHTS--come. THAT is reality, and if for you it bites, for me it sings.    
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Reprieve from the Execution

      I am reading a number of blog posts dealing with Obama and his infanticidal ways.  Good.  Let's make sure the country knows just what kind of being might be elected if we don't wake people up.  There is no logical reason to vote for Obama and that windbag Biden--how many times has he tried to run himself?  Always failed, but never got tired of hearing his own voice drone on about his favorite subject: him.  And is he going to try to call himself a Catholic?  He is pro-choice and running with a man who thinks killing babies already born in spite of efforts to destroy them is A-OK.
         Even convicted murderers condemned to die, if they survive their execution, are not then bludgeoned to death or shot.  Or left in some closet with no food or water to die on their own.  Good grief.  I cannot believe I have to write this.  Where are the Christian, Catholic, and Jewish leaders, as well as congregants?  Can you honestly vote for this evil man and his equally evil wife? Because it's a sure thing you'll have them both running your life.  Biden is a joke, but he's a bad joke.  We have heard enough of his blathering over the long, LONG years of his Senate "career." None of us needs to hear one more inane word from him.  But you had all better be listening VERY closely to what comes out of Obama's mouth.  It is horrifying, when you can actually understand what he says. 
       We, the People, must reject this amoral party's platform of death, communist dogma, climate change crap, sky-high taxes, and the Big Nanny Government "taking care of" the masses and telling us how to live every facet of our lives.  One of the blogs mentioned the famous quote about how free societies don't last, because once the affluence comes, people become selfish and lazy and want more, more, more given to them--leading eventually to a totalitarian society.  I hope America proves to be the exception to the rule mentioned in that quote--that democracies last about 200 years, and then the cycle begins that leads to complete LOSS of freedom. 
        Give the babies a reprieve, give the United States of America a reprieve.  Go to the polls, and kick this disgraceful candidate to the curb.  
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The Burden of the Baby

        Obama's reply to Rick Warren regarding when babies should be given human rights was just precious, wasn't it?  It's above his pay grade to answer it, ho ho, what a sense of humor.  My Catholic and other Christian friends and family, do we need more?
        Well, in case we do, here it is.  Asked a while ago about saving the lives of babies who survive attempted abortions, Obama waxed eloquent on what a "burden" it would be to have to "call in a second doctor to assess the situation" and apparently to deal with it. Oh my, that WOULD be a trial. 
         As a former Labor and Delivery nurse, I can actually set Osama's mind at ease.  Here it is, B.O.:  you don't need another doctor to come in and say, "yep, that kid's alive all right!"  Any doctor who can try to kill a full term baby, or a baby at any stage of viability for that matter, can make that assessment all by him or herself!  Doctor Whoever can not only determine that the baby is in fact alive, but can take steps to see that he or she stays that way.  Now granted, that may be a burder to SOMEONE who wished for a different outcome, but let's not pretend that it is because another doctor might be called in. 
         It is positively gruesome to hear this idiot talk about his well-known, if now denied, position on who is actually being burdened here.  I would say it would be the BABY, living, breathing, able to survive on its own outside the womb, yet treated as so much medical waste and consigned to the soiled utility room,  the incinerator, or wherever else these creative killers decide to put it.  The first thing a baby wants when he or she enters the world is cuddling and warmth and a breast to suckle.  I truly cannot imagine ANYONE, short of the truly evil,  who would deny him or her that basic comfort and the chance for a life with people (one of the many thousands of couples wishing to adopt, for instance) who will love him or her with all  their hearts.
         The more we see of Obama, the more we must call him what he is.  Marxist, naive, inexperienced, megalomaniacal, immoral--or amoral, self-aggrandizing, and my personal favorite: a consummate liar of the first order. He is trying mightily to deny the above statements, but I HEARD him say it, and it is obvious from the way he has voted that he has no concern for, no respect for, no empathy for the most helpless and vulnerable among us. Yet he tries to spout Bilbical quotes about "the least of these...."  Who is he talking about?!
          He is NOT smart.  He is NOT smooth (just LISTEN to him without a teleprompter; he is totally out of his element and cannot string three words together to make a coherent statement).  People are slowly waking up and actually paying attention to this clown, and I hope that continues until McCain--who was not my first choice and would not be today, though he is getting better--blows him away in a landslide in November.  That this oaf would presume to become the leader of the greatest and most complex nation on earth is the height of pomposity.  For Obama, par for the course.
         I trust all Christians and Jews, and all people with any moral sense at all, will reject this potential disaster for our country.
         I am not going to mention Obama's half brother living in a 6 x 9 foot hut in Africa.  Oops.
 
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The Big Lies About the "Cervical Cancer Vaccine"

       The commercials for the "cervical cancer vaccine" make me cringe.  The misinformation campaign is in full swing, and apparently people are buying it.  Makes one reminisce about that old saw: there's a sucker born every minute.  Must be true, if we judge by this item.  And of course, there's the Obamamania.  Suckers, every one of the lemmings slobbering over him.
           But I digress.
           The makers of this drug are dishonest and any parent who subjects a young daughter (they'd like to vaccinate 9 year olds) to this is both foolish and abusive.  NO ONE knows what the long term effects of this drug will be.  And it is NOT a CANCER VACCINE.  It is a sexually transmitted disease vaccine.  It is supposed to protect against several types of HPV virus--genital warts, to put it more appetizingly.  The main thing to be aware of is that if one's daughter is not promiscuous and does not engage in risky sexual behavior (at NINE?) she is not particularly likely to acquire this lovely disease.  It IS true that a large number of cases of cervical cancer are the result of HPV, but wouldn't parents be sending a better message if they simply teach their daughters the facts and not just shoot them full of some drug, before they even reach puberty, that may cause them harm later on?  What are we telling these children?  According to Planned Parenthood's web site for teens, STDs are just a fact of life!  "Over half of us will get one at some time!"  Hey kids, don't sweat it!  Recreational sex is GREAT--and those STDs, well they just make you one of the gang.  Over HALF of us?  Huh?
        I loved Kathryn Jean Lopez' column on the disgusting video production of PP, "Take Care Down There."  "Crass" doesn't really do it justice though.  It is so pathetic that PP and the secular lefties are unaware that kids are actually interested in something other than cheap, meaningless sex.  Because THEY aren't, they assume no one is.
        I'm always hearing that abstinence education doesn't work, but it MUST, because that's all we had when I was young, and only two girls in my high school got pregnant in the four years I was there.  Abortion wasn't legal and birth control wasn't available to KIDS, so I have to assume most of us were abstinent.  Both girls who did get pregnant married the guy, and one is still married to him some 40 years later.  It would seem that assuming most teens will NOT have sex would be more effective than telling them they WILL have it, and to just suck it up with the STDs and all, not to mention the empty feelings, the depression, the shame of being dumped by the person who screwed you last night and then told all his friends--no big deal!  And get that vaccine, so you can just continue to "hook up" and pretend it's about freedom and fun. 
        Now for those of you who have any doubts about how this sick culture of irresponsibility and demeaning behavior is hurting our kids, please read the book "Unprotected."  My copy lists the author as Anonymous, though I believe she has now allowed her name to be on later copies. I'm sure you can get it on Amazon.  It is a wake up call for parents and teens alike.  We, especially women, but men are negatively affected too, are not meant to use sex as casual entertainment. No vaccine can protect against the emotional trauma this attitude causes.  And apparently the vaccine doesn't protect against ALL strains of HPV.  Hmm, I guess you just hope you get lucky and are exposed to one of the strains that it MAY protect against.  Nothing is 100% effective--except abstinence.  Parents--don't take the lazy way out.  Tackle the tough issue of the sexualized cesspool our kids are swimming in, and TEACH them, provide them with values and allow them to be CHILDREN, innocent for as long as possible and then educated about the real facts and consequences of behavior.   
 
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It Was Good to BE the Mommy!

        It's almost Mothers' Day and I've been reflecting on my Mom life and Grandmother life.  All in all, it's been the most consistently interesting and satisfying life I can imagine.  Of course, if I hadn't had a great husband to be there with me along the way, it might have been a little less thrilling.  I cannot imagine single motherhood and trying to be both mother and father.  I am one of those people with the quaint belief that children need both parents for balance and completeness.  I still seethe at the idea that gay couples should adopt children because two moms are as good as a mom and a dad, or two dads are.  I am not replaceable by a man, nor is my husband replaceable by a woman. Geez.  Common sense, People.  
         I've been reading a couple of books about nannies lately, one in particular about Washington, D.C. nannies.  It is horrifying to realize the vast numbers of women, since the feminist movement started back in the sixties, who have "had" children, only to refuse to stick around and raise them.  To these women, having children is like having a house, an SUV, furniture, a pool--you just HAVE them, and then let someone--anyone--take over the actual business of bringing them up and being with them.  What in the world is the point?  Children are not just things to have.  They actually do prefer to have PARENTS who are with them, especially mothers, especially when they are just out of the womb.  Most of the parents in these books had a baby nurse waiting for them when they brought the baby home from the hospital, and that was the person who rocked, comforted, bathed and often fed the baby until it was old enough for the nanny to step in and take over.  Talk about a smooth transition!  From one paid employee to the next, mommy never had to participate except when she felt like it.  I'm sure she did look in on the kid once in a while when she came home from her very important job long after he or she was asleep. 
         When I had my first daughter 37 years ago, it never occurred to my husband and me that I would ever consider leaving her in the care of strangers--or even a friend or family member--rather than be with her myself.  Five other wives at my husband's engineering firm had babies the same month I did (no, I don't know what was going on nine months prior), and not one ever even discussed "going back to work."  I would have laughed at the notion.  
        Well, as we all do, I sure found out that motherhood was a heck of a lot of work, and that babies can be mysterious and frustrating and not very good about following the guidelines in all the experts' books.  I read Dr. Spock and tried to use him as an in-home pediatrician, but my baby had colic and it DIDN'T GO AWAY at EXACTLY three months, so I was on the phone with my real live pediatrician the day of her three month birthday.  He said, "...Give or take a few weeks..." in regard to the three month limit on colic, and that turned out to be true.  I walked many miles with her, as did her father, trying to comfort her and stop her wailing.  I am so glad it was I who was there, for I know she knew somewhere in her little baby being that the person taking care of her, doing her best while failing miserably at times, was Mom.  And sometimes Dad.
        I don't wonder at the alarming increase in disconnected, psychotic children roaming the country unsupervised, unloved, and deprived of even basic parenting, let alone dedicated parenting.  So many women adopted the idea that mothers are interchangeable with paid help, and so many men decided that they must be right, and anyway that means more money for me to buy toys for myself, that the number of troubled children is not surprising.  How sad for these little babies who never have the one-on-one, day after day interaction with and adoration from the person who gave birth to them.  Ken Magid has written about what happens to children who do not bond early in life, and what it takes for that bond to occur and become permanent.  From what I read of the nanny phenomenon, mothers think that if they are paying exorbitant amounts of money to some stranger from England, they need feel no guilt about abandoning their children.  I always liked Dr. Laura's take on it:  Would your husband be happy with a substitute wife 3/4 of the time?  No?  Then why should your babies be okay with substitute parents?  What message does pawning your kids off on paid employees send to those kids?  Parenting is HARD and YOU aren't worth the Herculean effort it takes to raise children.  My job trumps YOU. 
        So I was there.  I still managed to finish nursing school and even work part time off and on, so I wasn't deprived of anything in terms of education or work.  When I did go to school or work, Daddy was there.  My middle daughter went to nursery school a couple of mornings a week when she was four, and that was the extent of her being away from me or her father.  I had no desire to do more outside the home than I did, and frankly there was never a job or a class in school that didn't eventually bore me.  My kids NEVER bored me.  On the contrary, they kept me sharp, wondering what issue, good or bad, I would be dealing with next.  I was there, and I am SO glad.
        Now my girls are grown and married.  Two have children and the youngest is pregnant.  They have been through college, two are still working on degrees and two work part time.  I am lucky enough to babysit my grandchildren often, but there is no doubt who Mom and Dad are and who is home most of the time raising them.  My children are dear, thoughtful, smart, sweet, caring and happy, and we do things together and enjoy each other's company regularly.  My husband is never happier than when all three daughters are around.  The grandchildren are the icing on the cake.  This Mothers' Day I am giving all three of my girls gifts, as I always do on Mothers' Day, to let them know how proud of them I am, and how I appreciate them as adults.  And of course they gave me the grandkids.  Thanks, girls!  And thanks for having the common sense and the motherly instincts to always want to take care of your own children and never put them in "day care" (the day orphanage, as Dr. Laura calls it), or hire strangers to pretend to love them as only their parents really can.  It takes a tremendous amount of energy, innovation, patience and humor to be in the trenches day after day with little ones.  But they are YOURS and no one else should be doing what needs to be done for them.  If you hang in there, and stay home, the rewards are beyond description.  As are some of the bad days.  I don't think there is a connection on earth as profound as mother/child.  I can't speak to father/child, but I suspect it is right up there.  I saw God and eternity in those eyes that gazed into mine.  And I saw it again in my grandchildren's eyes.  There's no job out there, NOTHING out there, that can touch that.  So for all of you who are home doing the work and laying down the foundations for your children, I wish you  Happy Mother's Day  and Godspeed in the most important job in life. -------------------------------------------Jan                                        
       





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